- Notice them
- Smile at them
- Encourage them to think BIG
- Look them in the eye when you talk to them
- Ask them about themselves
- Let them tell you how they feel
- Listen to their stories
- Call them on the phone just to say hi
- Answer their questions
- Ask them their opinions
- Give them your undivided attention
- Believe what they say
- Tell them what you like about them
- Delight in their discoveries
- Listen to their favorite music with them
- Tolerate their interruptions
- Suggest better behaviors when they act up or act out
- Show up at their games, concerts and special events
- Tell them how much you like being with them
- Tell them about yourself
- Help them take a stand, then stand with them
- Ask them to help you with something
- Keep the promises you make to them
- Tell them how proud you are of them
- Send them a letter, postcard or an email
- Introduce them to your friends and family
- Make time to be with them
- Be excited when you see them
- Notice when they grow
- Remember their birthdays
- Believe in them
- Meet their friends and family
- Include them in conversations
- Laugh at their jokes
- Do things together
- Respect them
- Find a common interest
- Do what they like to do
- Applaud their success
- Contribute to their collections
- Read aloud together
- Accept them as they are
- Share a meal together
- Go places together
- Build something together
- Make decisions together
- Help them learn something new
- Be honest with them
- Encourage them to hlep others
- Let them make mistakes
- Admit when you make a mistake
- Be nice to them
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